In the Windows update setting you will not see the menu for disabling the Windows automatic update.
You can make disable the Windows automatic update using another way. use the Local Policy Group Editor.
1. Press Windows logo + R to open Run dialog
2. Write: gpedit.msc then click OK or hit the Enter key.
The Local Policy Group Editor will appear.
3. Browse to the User Configuration➜ Administrative Templates➜ System. then choose Windows Automatic Updates.
4. On the next page select: Enable, then click Apply/OK